Passive agressive behavior in dating a woman

He went to work wearing them that same day and frequently texted me his thanks.

Seeing him in the bikinis did nothing for me sexually, but making him wear them did give me a rush.

He was visibly relieved to see me yet also nervous.

When I made him go into the restroom and change into a pair of my panties I'd brought for him, he stumbled.

So when I received a message from a white man in his early twenties asking if I wanted deep conversation or a sub, I decided to say "fuck it" and go for it.

Because of his age and appearance, I didn't feel threatened by his ignorance, even though his desire for a Strong Black Woman to take control of him sexually was an echo of other messages I'd received via Ok Cupid.Because he was still pretty new to being a sub, I felt more comfortable allowing the relationship to progress.I felt safer, realizing we would be experiencing our sexual awakenings together, in a sense.I asked him why he reached out to me, what made him think it was OK to offer himself as a sub to me.He said he thought I looked lovely and was just taking a chance.